Ifeanyi OgbechieIfeanyi Ogbechie

TRIBUTE TO A DEARLY BELOVED BROTHER & IN-LAW – IFY J A Life of Love, Kindness, and Godly Service With heavy hearts, yet in total submission to the will of Almighty God, we pay tribute to a dear brother and beloved brother-in-law whose transition to glory has left a profound vacuum. Though words fail to fully capture the depth of our loss, we remain deeply grateful to God for the beautiful, impactful life Ify J lived. Our dear brother, you were a man of uncommon humility and grace. You carried yourself with simplicity and meekness, treating everyone with equal dignity and respect. You truly lived the wisdom of Scripture: “He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” (Micah 6:8). Your life beautifully demonstrated that true greatness lies in service. No one came around you without feeling valued, welcomed, and appreciated. Your compassion was expressed in practical, quiet ways; you were a generous giver who would willingly stretch yourself—even sourcing funds when resources were limited—rather than watch someone suffer. This generosity flowed naturally from a loving heart, mirroring the words of our Lord: “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35). You were a God-fearing man whose faith was evident in your daily conduct, patience, and sincerity. Your devotion to God shaped your genuine concern for humanity, fulfilling the ultimate commandment: “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:35). As a family, we will never forget your constant love and devotion. Your regular phone calls to ask after our children—sincerely tracking their growth and progress—carried a distinct warmth and grace. Those thoughtful gestures were more than mere conversations; they were expressions of a large heart and an unwavering commitment to family bonds. You truly embodied the commandment to “love your neighbour as yourself” (Mark 12:31). Indeed, you lived a quiet yet powerful life. While we mourn your departure, we are comforted by the promises of God's Word: “The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him” (Proverbs 20:7), and “Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord… that they may rest from their labours; and their works do follow them” (Revelation 14:13). Your memory will forever remain precious to us. While we grieve your absence, we rejoice in the confidence that you have entered into glory where there is no more pain, resting with the Lord whom you so faithfully served. We take comfort in the promise: “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints” (Psalm 116:15). Rest on, beloved brother and in-law. Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure, and your example a light that will continue to guide us until we meet again at the feet of Jesus. Professor Emma Odiaka & Professor Mrs. Ngozi Odiaka

Uncle Ify, the most generous soul to ever walk this earth. The news broke our heart more than words can explain. You taught us so much through your genuine love and the way you connected with everyone around you. You were always there for your siblings and their children, and always the first to celebrate the successes of others. We thank God for your life and for the beautiful memories you gave us all. Rest peacefully Uncle Ify, you will forever be loved and deeply missed. Someje, Kika. Kosi & Oseno Odiaka

A HALF CENTURY OF FRIENDSHIP A Tribute To Engineer Ifeanyi Ogbechie (1953 - 2026) Forty Eight Years. They say you can count your true friends on one hand, but for almost five decades, Ifeanyi was not just a Friend that stuck closer than a Brother - He was a Comrade, a Confidant, a Companion and the very definition of an alter ego with a "Heart of Gold." We met 48 years ago, in His final year in University of Lagos and from the start, I was struck by His radiant spirit and conviviality. Over the decades, I learned that rare individuals like Ifeanyi did not just exist in this world; they lit it up. His generosity was not merely about material things - though he was always the first to share whatever he had — it was indeed a generosity of spirit, time and unconditional love. Whether it was listening in empathy, offering invaluable advice, showing up when it mattered most or ransoming the captive, Ifeanyi lived a life that was a divine blessing to all. His memory is now our treasure to hold on to. I remember that February 1982, 44 years ago. Ifeanyi on Shell Wellsite PE training in Holland. I a Schlumberger Oilfield Services R&D staff on annual vacation. On Ifeanyi's prompting I transited through TheHague Holland on my visit to UK. He put me in a Hotel - His same Hotel BelAir. He made sure I ran zero expenses just to give me a memorable vacation experience, in spite of His tight budget as a Trainee. That self sacrifice in our youthful days will remain a lifetime memory for me. Walking this world without Ifeanyi feels like losing a piece of my own history. Yes words fail me here to express how I feel. "Death ends a life, but not a relationship," and while the pain of losing Him is immense, the love and laughter we shared remain unbreakable. To His immediate family, His wife - the personable and elegant Ma'am Ezzy, His lovely Sons - Dubi, Kika, Malobi, Zona and Hona - what better legacy, what manner of man could anyone have wished or prayed for? He loved and doted on His family, His charity indeed began at home. I will say take heart, for Ifeanyi's charitable good works and His enormous goodwill, will continue to go before you the Ify-Ogbechies and open doors for you. "God Almighty will continue to be your refuge and strength, a very present help in your time of need" Amen - (Psalm 46 vs 1). To my departed Brother and Friend of almost half a century, Ifeanyi - You made this world a better place just by being in it. May flights of Angels sing you to your rest, my dear friend. Thank you for fifty years of Caring, Sharing, Selflessness, Friendship, Brotherhood and Camaraderie. I am consoled that in life Ifeanyi, You demonstrated that salvation and eternal life can not be exclusive to "Pharisean" self righteous, lip service to God, but in walking your talk, in your good works, in good deeds and in your amazing large heartedness. As the fabled "Good Samaritan" you were in life. To Engr Ifeanyi Ogbechie my friend through thick and thin, I will say in leaving.. "To live in the hearts, minds and thoughts of family, your loved ones and all those whose lives you touched.. Is Not To Die". May You continue to rest in the Good Lord and arise to joyful awakening in Christ Jesus name I pray Amen. Ify Jaay Ogbechie; "You Fought The Good Fight, You Finished Your Race, You Kept The Faith". (2 Tim 4 vs 6). Surely You have earned the Crown of righteousness which God Almighty the righteous Judge shall award to You on that day. Yes Death is an inevitable end to life and we are all in a queue. So even as we mourn your departure, we must take solace in your exemplary life of empathy and kindness, compassion and many professional career and business achievements especially in the Oilfield. Your legacy will live forever. Adieu my dear Brother. Fare Thee well 💔🥀🥺.

From the very first day I met him, he welcomed me into the family with open arms. He was always incredibly kind to me, and I deeply admired him for the accomplished, generous, and selfless man he was. I will forever be grateful to have been part of his life, and forever proud and thankful that our children were lucky enough to call him “Grandpa.” The love he had for his children and grandchildren was truly beautiful to witness. I truly believe my husband — his firstborn son — is the wonderful man he is today because of his father’s example, love, and guidance Rest in peace. You left a beautiful mark on everyone fortunate enough to be your family. You will be greatly missed and forever remembered with love. By Linea Brockmeyer Ogbechie.

My father used to tell us — "talk less, think more." It is advice I am still learning to follow. Today I will try to honour both the lesson and the man who gave it to me. I loved my dad. I did not say it enough. Neither did he. But that was just who we were — we were not men who dropped our emotional guards easily, and we showed love more through action than through words. He knew it. I knew it. And standing here today, I want to say it plainly, out loud, for anyone who did not already know. When I moved back to Nigeria I got to know him differently — not just as my father but as a man. What I found was someone deeply reasonable. Humble in a way that surprised me. Genuinely open to new ideas, even when we disagreed, which we did occasionally. A man who was actually willing to sit across from his own son and listen. That is rarer than it sounds. He built Dubi from nothing in 1990. Thirty-six years. Families employed, livelihoods supported, a name that stood for something. And yet this same man would sometimes come to me and quietly ask if he could have some money — as though he had not built the whole thing himself. That was his humility. Not weakness. Grace. He would sit us down for hours when we were kids. Long lectures. Honestly, we found them boring at the times. I suspect I am not alone in that. But I would give anything to sit through one more. About thinking before speaking. About spending quality time over quantity time with the people you love. He understood life better than we gave him credit for. Above everything else, what he was most proud of was his children. Even when we fell short, as we all do, that never changed. I loved my dad. He loved me. And I will carry him in everything I build. Malobi Ogbechie (Son)